You might be wondering why this title to a network marketer's post, right ?
Well, this word, Ethics, is like a major part of everyone's life. Ethics define the way we live, your personality and us. We practically live on Ethics and in our industry we help people with the same. In my company we have 5 ethics which we all follow. This post going to be about the importance of ethics and some real life stories related to it.
Well, this word, Ethics, is like a major part of everyone's life. Ethics define the way we live, your personality and us. We practically live on Ethics and in our industry we help people with the same. In my company we have 5 ethics which we all follow. This post going to be about the importance of ethics and some real life stories related to it.
Truth:
Truth, something that we don't tell anyone or sometimes not even to our self. This is the first ethics which is taught. In this if you're Truthful to everyone, you're truthful to your success and most importantly yourself. This can be better explained by a story.
note: You can consider yourself or your friend, this story might or might not relevant to real life, no offence meant. This is a work of pure fiction.
I had newly taken admission in my networking company and I had forgotten about these ethics and everything. I was happy-to-go type of person, who can talk to anyone and everyone. I had like tons of groups of friends, it was quite confusing sometime who I might be with, my uplines (The person who shows you the plan or who enrolls you), my family and other friends used to be very confused about my whereabouts. One fine day, Me and my best friend, decided to go out of station without giving any prior notice to anyone. While traveling my phone got switched off, we had a lot of fun there and she had got her boyfriend too, but everyone in my hometown were worried about my whereabouts especially my uplines because that day we had some different plans and my family knew I was going to go with my uplines. We came back in the evening and I went to the usual cafe where I always meet them. They were dead worried about my whereabouts, so I told them where I was. In spite of being furious they didn't say anything. They just said don't ever do this again. There was a thing I hadn't told them and that was - with my best friend and me we had her boyfriend.
Few months passed, I was engrossed in my work and college. Me and my best friend didn't get a lot of time together. One day, her parents called me home, their home. I thought they had some work so I went, there they threw a few pictures at and asked me what was going on. I picked up a picture and saw a photo of me and her boyfriend which was cropped and printed. I was surprised, it was pure betrayal, I left her place and told this story to my uplines. To the story they only said one thing -
"Everything happens for a reason. "
All there was regret and shame left. That they onwards I decided not to lie anymore and grow up truthfully.
note: You can consider yourself or your friend, this story might or might not relevant to real life, no offence meant. This is a work of pure fiction.
I had newly taken admission in my networking company and I had forgotten about these ethics and everything. I was happy-to-go type of person, who can talk to anyone and everyone. I had like tons of groups of friends, it was quite confusing sometime who I might be with, my uplines (The person who shows you the plan or who enrolls you), my family and other friends used to be very confused about my whereabouts. One fine day, Me and my best friend, decided to go out of station without giving any prior notice to anyone. While traveling my phone got switched off, we had a lot of fun there and she had got her boyfriend too, but everyone in my hometown were worried about my whereabouts especially my uplines because that day we had some different plans and my family knew I was going to go with my uplines. We came back in the evening and I went to the usual cafe where I always meet them. They were dead worried about my whereabouts, so I told them where I was. In spite of being furious they didn't say anything. They just said don't ever do this again. There was a thing I hadn't told them and that was - with my best friend and me we had her boyfriend.
Few months passed, I was engrossed in my work and college. Me and my best friend didn't get a lot of time together. One day, her parents called me home, their home. I thought they had some work so I went, there they threw a few pictures at and asked me what was going on. I picked up a picture and saw a photo of me and her boyfriend which was cropped and printed. I was surprised, it was pure betrayal, I left her place and told this story to my uplines. To the story they only said one thing -
"Everything happens for a reason. "
All there was regret and shame left. That they onwards I decided not to lie anymore and grow up truthfully.
Kindness:
Kindness, in today's fast world we don't have time for this or some of us take some extra things for this. In my company we offer free education for children who cannot afford education. We even organise different camps like blood donation, computer literacy and social awareness. This also can be explained by a story and this story is true. It happens in our community.
I had completed almost more than 2 years in a network marketing company and till now I have never ever felt this kind of satisfaction from my work. This was unexpected.
One year ago, I used to love roller skating especially with my dog. We used to go far aways from my house to a place where there were trees on both side of the road and there were benches near the river. I used to feel at peace near the river, there I used to meet a young girl. She was about 15 and I was 19, I used take some snacks with me and share them with her, she used to be very happy. One day, I working on my laptop and she came, she saw me working and she was fascinated by my typing speed. I smiled and asked her if she wants to learn. She was eager to learn, so I started teaching her online. At first she came with interest, soon she started loosing some as her mother used to send her to work. I decided to teach her at least few course. She learned them recurrently for almost six months. Then I had to shift cities due some work. In my hometown, she used to walk my dog and sometime used my computer to learn something new. After I got permanently shifted to the main city, we lost contact.
She had called me to tell me that she is shifting to my city, she had cleared a competitive exam with flying colours and she is going to have a very secured life with her mom. I had tears in my eyes while keeping the phone.That night, I slept peacefully and contently, I had achieved something that day.
Today, She after almost four years she runs a NGO for stray Dogs and cats in my city and leads a happy married life.
Loyalty and Honesty:
Loyalty, a very important part of anyone's life. We usually treasure loyal people, fortunately we find them here. You find like minded people there who are always there to help in any time. These lines may not give you importance but my story surely will.
It was my 2nd month working in a networking company. I was in my learn and work mode, during this time usually your friends don't join with you, but I was fortunate that both my best friends had joined. We were a team, our uplines used to say that we were made of each other, we used to back each other at our households and wherever we needed. Things were perfect, just like a fairytale.
Fairytales are for children and we were grown-ups. Around 6 months had passed we all were on good position and earning. We excelled, failed, got rejected and made a good team in these 6 months, we all were very happy but reality came crashing down. One of my friend was transferring to a different city due to his family conditions. We were on seventh cloud that now we will have a team in different city and state. He promised to stay in touch and work hard there. After he left, things were different with just two of us left to take care of our team. I was happy to do so but he wasn't, he had some different plans as were starting our first year in college.
As your college started we started working too. We worked together for sometime but later his priorities changed and he left. I was devastated on hearing this but my uplines supported me and told me one thing which I still very well remember and apply.
"If this is happening to you, God is trying to make your story, be strong. "
I took this line to my heart and started working irrespective of anything.
After a few months,It was convocation (a yearly event) time, My other friend who had left the city was anchoring the event with me and the other friend who had left us was watching us from the crowd. This is loyalty, It doesn't matter who leaves you, the only thing matters is who cherishes you, wants to see you grow and who wants to help you.
Passion:
Passion is a drive to happiness. Its the small sacrifices, small happiness and things you do for the end result. It is enjoying the journey on the way to your destination.
Its my wish from when I was very young to become an author, I didn't have any source for it. Now after so many years, I have started my blog and I'm really proud of it. Writing has always been my passion and that's what drives me, I hope you share your passion in the comments below, I would like to hear from you guys too.
Its my wish from when I was very young to become an author, I didn't have any source for it. Now after so many years, I have started my blog and I'm really proud of it. Writing has always been my passion and that's what drives me, I hope you share your passion in the comments below, I would like to hear from you guys too.
Love:
Love is a emotion which better not be explained, as everyone understands it. It is priceless and you find it here no matter what.
It was summer going, exams were almost done. Things were messed up due to studies and college timings, routine was disturbed. My uplines and downlines both were busy in exams, so we decided to go out after exams for a vacation. Unfortunately for us, we had college for twenty more days, so we decided not to go. During this time, there were some issues going on with my family, they were planning to go on a vacation, some were going to foreign countries while others were busy in their personal lives. Usually till now my summer has always been eventful but this was different.
During this time I decided to chill and give time to myself. I turned off my surroundings went in a different world of imagination, books or movies. I didn't understand how my behaviour was seen by the people. My uplines noticed the changes and were disturbed but didn't say anything. One day, while we were eating, they confronted me and I realized how much are they trying to hold my boat but yet I'm letting myself go in the storm. The pain they suffered was awful and I felt really guilty for doing this to them but that day I even realized that they deeply care and love me in spite of having their personal problems and issues.
So just one thing in the end, if you have people like these in your life, cherish them, you might not find them again. The dawn of realization is enough, as long as you have understood your mistakes things are going to great.
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